How many men don't get sex from their wives and why do they stay?

How many men don't get sex from their wives and why do they stay? i am just curious. I fell in love with a married man and even though we don't have sex we have messed around. He is so perfect for me except he's married. He tries so hard to be faithful and I respect this cuz to be honest I am scared to fall even deeper. So, He goes out of his way for her and she does nothing in return. What is the deal with men who do this. This isn't about me. I would just like to know why a man would put up with this especially since he has only been married a year with no children.How many men don't get sex from their wives and why do they stay?
More than you can imagine but I will caution you to avoid advice from the expert masses who truly have a very limited View of the problem. As with all things, do not pass judgment or give advice until you have lived the situation and can speak from experience rather than opinion cause we all know about opinions. The reasons a man would stay in a sexless (or loveless for that matter) marriage could be one or more of the following.


Children. Staying to make sure your children are provided for or have a stable environment.


Money. The system is not always fair and balanced when it comes to divorce and most men find themselves with the choice of staying and being miserable or leaving an being financially ruined and miserable.


Some men also realize that their wives will out and out have no where to go and no means of supporting themselves so to leave would effectively be throwing them out in the street.


that is a partial list to be sure and any one of those reasons is a consideration as to why a man would stay in a sexless marriage and why the same man would look outside that marriage for what is missing. ask youself how many men are living all three of those examples and what that would drive them to. And before you type a reply, I speak from experience.


How many men don't get sex from their wives and why do they stay?
He's probably lying about it to you and telling you all this crap about his wife which isn't true.





And if he's messing around with you I don't think he's ';trying hard to be faithful';.





There are lots of reasons why a man would stay in a sexless marriage (feeling they have to, still liking the wife or the relationship for other reasons, social status, financial reasons, kids) but like I said probably cheating guys like yours aren't really having a sexless marriage they just say they are.





Harriet
You said... ';He tries so hard to be faithful and I respect this';


If you did respect him that way you wouldn't be messing around with him end of story.


Why do married men stay in sexless marriages? Because some things are more important, and he is scared because he sees how easy woman are(from you) and if he was single he doesn't want to get an STD ...
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Probably no sex suits him fine.


Otherwise he would have bedded you long ago.
You are feeding his EGO .





She does do things for him I'm sure .





Unless your in their bedroom , then you really don't know what


they do , or how good she does him , do you ?





Being the other Women , you only know what he tells you .





You should realize that his wife is his first choice , and that he


is cheating on her with you , so ask yourself this question :





Would a cheating husband LIE ?





Answer : YES !!!!
if anyone knows the answer let me know, right now im wanting to split from my wife so bad...but we have an almost 3 months old son...i just suck it up because i have seen enough about children growing with no parents or split parents...etc...
sound like you're already in deep with this married man. since you admitted that the two of you have mess around. well how long have they been dating before got married? that is odd for someone who only been married a year and she is already cut him off from sex. that is why too hard for me to believe. even if he had cheated on his newly wife, she would be screaming for divorce from him. his is playing you!!
The better question is why do girls mess around with married men? Hmmm.....poor self esteem, low self worth, loving drama, being dramatic---I could keep going. He's not perfect for you, he's married to someone else. He's lying to you, just like he's lying to her. He hasn't had sex with you because he feels guilty because he loves HER, not you. Not to be a b***h, but to him, you are easy and pathetic---that's why he messes around with you and goes home to her. Sexless or not, they respects their vows and takes it seriously. That's more than I can say for you. He's not going to tell you he's happily married and just trying to mess around on the side. Tell him you're going to call his wife and watch how fast he ditches you. He's a cheater, and he very well may have kids--sounds like he has some trust issues. When this all comes out into the open---he will be at home with his wife trying to work it out, and you will be alone. Wait until you're married, karma's a b***h.
Yeah I agree with some of the other responses. He's probably just lying to you. If he's trying so hard to be faithful, he wouldn't be cheating on her. Men stay with their wifes when there is no sex because they probably love them and that sex really isn't the most important things in a marriage when other things are going on. And if you respected him so much, then you would stay away from him since he is ';Married';. If you didn't want this question to be about you, then you shouldn't have put all the details about that the married guy.
For one thing lady HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT SHE ISN'T GIVING HIM SEX? He could be just telling you that to make you feel sorry for him and get in your pants.... So what it sounds like is that you just want to brake up there marriage WHY DON'T YOU GET YOUR OWN LIFE AND LIVE THERE MARRIAGE ALONE?........Plus it is just showing everyone what kind of person you are....Is you said that he wants to work out there marriage then why don't you take the hint that he doesn't want you he wants his wife..............There are a lot of single men out there for you to mess around on so go fine them..........