Read it all men and porn plz?

Okay heres the deal, My man will occasionally gaze at girls prettier then me when were out in public, i try to act like i dont notice it, but the other day he slipped out this comment that was sooo wrong and i could tell he felt bad right after he said it, I said sort of putting myself down and jokingly, ';I wished i looked like jessica alba maybe you would like me more'; and he said ';If you looked like that babe youd never get left alone'; So he pretty much said if i looked like that he would F*ck me more. I'm not one to show much emotion but when her sexuality part came up to the t.v. i said i needed to go to the bathroom and he caught me balling my freaking eyes out. he apologized a million times and everything, i know he didn't say it purposelessly, he freaking adores me. But what the problem was later on that night i was playing on this computer, and he was behind me playing on the laptop, and i heard him get super quiet out of nowhere, i got up and seen the light change on his face, he was watching porn, i would be sort of upset about him doing this, but it was just the SAME day he said that to me. Thats the first time i ever caught him watching it, i know he doesn't do it often. So i gave him a dose of his own freaking medicine i looked at naked men with big schlongs so he would catch me, he got super quiet and was really upset. We talked about it and he said this other women non sense has got to stop, he never knew how bad this hurt me, and he admits if i did the same it would hurt. I know this is his first real relationship, Hes always been a sweetie and girls have looked right past him, I'm also guilty of this, he chased me for years, weve been working on his lying, because hes so fragile with me, when i can handle the truth. but should i even be giving him another chance on this, i feel like hes lying to me b/c he wont stop, and might eventually cheat, i think he just doesn't want me to do it back so he lies to make me feel better. Should i give him another chance?Read it all men and porn plz?
hmmmm, my wife is hotter than jessica alba, so i can't answer your question.Read it all men and porn plz?
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You need to be more concise, Tolstoy.
Thats hard to say. I would tell him what bothers you and if he doesnt care and does it again then i would dump him.If a guy loves you he wont do things that bother you.
First of all both of you need to grow up. You asking him those stupid questions you are only wanting him to say something sweet like your the only one for me however it didn't work out that way. Stop asking stupid questions then you wouldn't get hurtful answers. You then cought him looking at porn believe me that wasn't his first time and I bet it is not his last. You going on the internet looking at porn yourself really didn't upset him actually it probably turned him on but he probably thinks that you want him to act upset so he did. Grow up.
so what he likes porn


why are you so threatened


oh yeah he is not into you anymore


hmmmm.,.....


time to move on and find someone who like you


and let him have his fun


stop nagging him


maybe (now this is an idea) you give him all those sexual thing s he wants instead of acting like a big old baby and nag and pout


maybe he will find you interesting then????
listen here.. when a man says he is sorry it's only to cover up at that moment.. sorries should never be said unless it's meant that it'll never happen again...stop crying over pitifull things and go make him jealous.. get yourself looking all nice and dolled up and go out together.. be confident and not needing to hold his hand or walk by his side to show you are not afraid to stand alone.. he'll come crawling for taking you for granted.. the more you show that you are hurt by this the more he'll do it.. sometimes to beat them is to join them.. it's either that or cry alone and hope for the hopeless..
porn is porn and its very unrealistic to expect a man not to watch it and get turned on by it. when he starts getting addicted and wont have anything to do with you, then you should be worried about it. them looking at other women is normal too. as long as they are not touching. i used to feel like porn and looking at other women was wrong in a relationship, but i grew up. i don't think that him looking at porn and other women will lead to him cheating
I got to say you sound a little sickening just a little no offense but you want him to be honest and tell you the truth then you say I am fragile well you can't be a pilot if you are afraid of flying girl. Now don't get me wrong he was a butt head for saying that jessica thing but I think you might have went to deep with that one. As far as that I would give him another chance now when it comes to lying I say no if he lies a lot you will never trust him. I know a few ppl who lie for no reason at all and I don't trust any of them.

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