How do men deal with this situation with a female friend?

Ok, I'm female but want to ask the males something: Say you have this friend (girl) and there's been some flirting now and again..then one day you kiss and make out but not full sex even though you (the man) wanted it of course (being a man)! Next day you feel awkward...usual! Well and here's the question for the men, if you don't contact her, does that mean that you see her as a 'one night stand'? Like you only wanted sex from her? Does it mean that you're not interested in her and that you were only 'friends' with her to get a little bit of action but didnt want her as a girlfriend? I mean surely you were attracted to her in the first place to get physical. All of this with no alcolhol by the way!! Would you be waiting for her to contact you /take the next step? Most important, would you have emotional ties %26amp; feelings for her now? Tell me what you think?How do men deal with this situation with a female friend?
From a male standpoint, I would never call a girl I just hooked up with, regardless of my relationship with them beforehand. It doesn't mean that I don't want to see you again, or don't want to do it again, or don't want to take it further. But calling afterwards makes it seem so cheesy and might send any number of messages that may or may not be correct. Guys can be shy about breaking the silence after something like that, especially if you were friends for a while beforehand, and you're not sure where it is going now.





Maybe you wonder if he is just disappointed because it didn't go all the way to sex. That might be true, but most guys wouldn't give up after one attempt. He's just biding his time, I'm betting. Waiting for a good opportunity to talk to you again. Maybe he likes you, but its just as likely he just wanted to fool around. Don't think about it too much. It won't solve anything.





If you want to be forward, he may like that. If you think he finds you attractive and you have a good bond, go ahead. Don't proposition him with a relationship, but maybe another hook-up. After the hook-up, you can use the ';So what do we do now?'; line. My girlfriend used it on me, and we've been together for about a year now.How do men deal with this situation with a female friend?
The most likely answer is '; he too is feeling awakward about last night and does not know how you will react if he calls you'; may be he is scared.





If you care about him, and want to take it forward, may be you could send him an SMS or call him- that way he will know that 'all is well' and he can come out of his shell.





About 'emotional ties and feelings for her'- People are not 'the same', male or female, so it is difficult to say. If you think he is a 'nice person', obvoiusly you have known him and seen him interact with other people- you should know how he treats people- with respect / with indefference / with disrespect. he will apply the same principles to you as well. You are the best judge about the 'emotional ties and feelings'. Think a little deeper and you have have your answer.
No feeling whats so ever, it was just a fling, I have had sexy flings with some of my female friends and we are still just friends. Sure we had kissed, had sex, but who cares. I guess if your bother horny and curious a peck shouldn't imply you want to be with them.
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