How to help my man deal with his jealousy?

Okay, I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years with a lovely man, but he is very possessive! No major reason for this, no cultural stuff at all. He gets very clingy and worried when I go out to see other people (be they male or female) and gets very jealous if I spend time with other men (i.e: males I have known for over 10 years. most of who are gay!!) I have tried to explain he has nothing to worry about, but he still gets funny about it. I am starting to feel resentful as I dont feel he believes me. What can I do to save my relationship? How to help my man deal with his jealousy?
talking with him %26amp; keeping everything open. (which Im sure you do!) Get him open %26amp; honest with talking with you about his fears. Maybe he has been hurt really badly in the past %26amp; hasn't gotten over it! Keep the communication open %26amp; tell him how it makes you feel! Maybe he has a fear of being alone! Maybe he has been left alone a lot as a child %26amp; is scared that things will fall apart! The more the subject is approached %26amp; talk about in a mutual, understanding manner, the sooner he can let out his fears %26amp; maybe relax. The topic won't be so stressful for him anymore %26amp; may learn to get over things %26amp; move on. Maybe he just needs extra support %26amp; understanding sent his way. Maybe its his own insecurities that he is projecting onto you! Just be patient! I used to be very jealous, but my man was patient %26amp; would always listen to my fears, I soon learnt that it was my own fears I was getting upset about %26amp; slowly have learnt to let go! It is great that he has someone like you that cares %26amp; willing to get things sorted out! I hope you can mend fences %26amp; go on to be greater %26amp; stronger than ever as a couple :)How to help my man deal with his jealousy?
i was like that in my first relationship. now i'm not (i'm a guy).


i think it has to do with internal confidence.


with my woman (my girl), I feel well, i'm deserving enough to have her, and she wants me. all the other guys she meets (unless it's brad pitt), i'm better than they are. and i trust her. so i'm not jealous.





so two issues.


(1) do i trust her?


(2) am i confident in my kung-fu skills?
if he's jealous, he's not a man, he's a teenage girl in a man's body, tell him to grow the f up and stop being such an insecure sissy
my guy is like this





im still waiting to find out why aswell, as he knows that i would never betray him but he still gets so touchy about males if i am talking to them.





its starting to drive me insane
I have been married for two years and my man does the same thing let me know when you find out!