How do men deal with your feelings when you realize that your no longer appealing to women?

Im 40 years old and i use to be quite the ladies man it seems now that im not even noticed even my girlfried of 12 years doesnt care to have sex with me .ifeel so bad about myself .how can i feel better about myself?it seems to effect all my love ones they say im acting like an a--hole.idont want to hurt any one im really a caring person but it seems that i dont show it.i ndont understand what im doing so wrong. please if anyone can offer advice im lookingHow do men deal with your feelings when you realize that your no longer appealing to women?
hey the best thing to do is to accpet that you're getting older, women liek that alot. im 23 buit iv been out with a man 13 years older then me....trust me its a realyl sexy experience...just take the attitude on as ' im older, i got more character;....How do men deal with your feelings when you realize that your no longer appealing to women?
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Try to spice things up with her. Make time for just you and her and let her know how special she is. Maybe she feels like you aren't committed to her since you have given her a pretty ring yet and it's been 12 years.
I'm 42 and in the same boat...... I just try and look at everything in a positive light.
juz walk aways.. and try to improve
Move to Samoa. The girls there are tall and fat, chances are they'll like to have you as their trained chinchilla.
Just go to cinema with Ur love one, offer her for candle light dinner and dance party...go to garden with her and shake up her hand with Ur hand...give Ur girlfriend all happiness that is not given ever..this is only one way to be seem Ur love to her..
Just be sweet and do romantic things. Age does not matter. Looks don't really matter either for many women. Just be yourself (unless you are usually not being nice) and try to be sweet. Also a sense of humor is very appealing! If you make a girl laugh and smile you are doing well. She will want to be around more and more! Say sweet things is important. Being arrogant is a big turnoff. Just be sweet!
Join a gym and get in great shape. It will improve your confidence and the ladies will be beating down your door.
Maybe she wants to be a wife and not a girlfriend. There are not many women that would be with a man for 12 years and not expect more.





You only look like an ****** because you are sexually frustrated. Either marry her or leave her and try to find a woman that wants what you want out of life. If you don't want to commit, there are many easy women who feel the same way but consider the woman you are leaving behind and if you could commit to her completely.





If she is the one with the commitment fears, you will need to let her go and look for a woman who doesn't fear commitment.





Good luck.
if you're not doing so already, maybe start exercising regularly? it'd take some of the aggression out at least, and perhaps spark some interest from the lady...... just a thought anyway. i do know any time i put on a few pounds, the girlfriend seems a little less inclined.
the fact that you WANT to be different should tell them you care- ask the woman what she would like from you, then try - but dont give in completely- because women will tell you what they want, then when you give it to them, they will realize they liked you better before-or they will change what they want, or they will always just want more. As long as you are not a major a$$hole, you are who you are and if they love you, the only thing that should change is their own acceptance of who you are- I mean if they KNOW you dont show affection, they should just take your word that you love them! BUT try to do something nice out of the blue sometimes- SOMETIMES, if you do it too much, they will take it for granted and soon it wont be enough.





As far as maintaining your looks, exercise man! It will take care of the whole physique!
write down the good things about yourself....focus on those. besides women go on whats inside a person not the outside. personality rules. I've dated guys who didn't have a lot of physical attributes but had one heck of a personality......best relationships ever.